I could see some people worship the god for the sake of (only) themselves. For they want to lead a happy and content life. Don't bother about others. Just for them and their family should be content.
I see such people don't bother/respect thy neighbor. They are not ready to talk, adjust or love thy neighbors. They even sans to bother about the surroundings for keep it neat and tidy. But these people put more effort on looting (worship) the god for their sake.
But the interesting fact is they would not refuse to get the benefits from thy neighbors. Also I see these people are not even ashamed of benefiting from others for whom they don't show any concern over them.
Here arises questions such as, if these so called pious people are not even able to respect thy neighbors how could their worship be valued. Their worship is just a loot to pacify the god for keeping them and their family content. I don't find any difference between these pious people and those who rob money and put a part of it in temple hundi.
Sunday, August 02, 2009
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Help - Show the direction!
Last sunday, I saw a TV programme - a debate on lavish spending against stingy spending of money.
A lady from the stingy spending side complained that her husband who is in lavish spending side, spends large amount of money on helping his friends. Once his friend sought for help saying he is struggling for living. Her husband gave Rs 10,000.
Later it is found that the man who got help from her husband bought TV set for the money borrowed.
Her husband on the other side argued that still he is ready to help his friends even though he found some of them were cheating. It is their fate to use it properly or not.
He said the reason for helping is he was struggling for living three years back. And no-one was there to help him. Even his friends. He struggled a lot and got the drive to achieve in life. And now he is the CEO of a company founded by him. So now he is in a position to help other who struggles for living.
And the debate went on. But I had the thought - his stand on helping others showed his good hearted nature. But unknowingly he is spoiling a part of the society. Helping his friends by providing money is spoiling them. He injects the thought that they could get money/survive with the help of others. This would never spark the fire in them to get the drive he got that brought him to this stature.
He can help his friends by showing the direction to come-up.
A lady from the stingy spending side complained that her husband who is in lavish spending side, spends large amount of money on helping his friends. Once his friend sought for help saying he is struggling for living. Her husband gave Rs 10,000.
Later it is found that the man who got help from her husband bought TV set for the money borrowed.
Her husband on the other side argued that still he is ready to help his friends even though he found some of them were cheating. It is their fate to use it properly or not.
He said the reason for helping is he was struggling for living three years back. And no-one was there to help him. Even his friends. He struggled a lot and got the drive to achieve in life. And now he is the CEO of a company founded by him. So now he is in a position to help other who struggles for living.
And the debate went on. But I had the thought - his stand on helping others showed his good hearted nature. But unknowingly he is spoiling a part of the society. Helping his friends by providing money is spoiling them. He injects the thought that they could get money/survive with the help of others. This would never spark the fire in them to get the drive he got that brought him to this stature.
He can help his friends by showing the direction to come-up.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Career - decide yourself
The recent recession impact on IT industry heavily affected the students who are to make their decision on career choices. I could see reports on dailies and news channels highlighting students have chosen areas other than IT for their engineering due to the current market situation.
On asking students the reason for the choice, most of them said that they are advised by their parents, neighbors to do so. I rarely see the case where the students made their choice out of their own interest. Students are forced to choose their career based on the current market scenario. They are not allowed to make the choice out of their interest.
People can be successful only if they make their way of their own interest. And there is no relation to the current market scenario.
Career choices should not be guided by fluctuations in the market. Education should be seen as a tool that nurtures an individuals personality and equips him/her to withstand such fluctuations for leading a healthy and balanced life.
On asking students the reason for the choice, most of them said that they are advised by their parents, neighbors to do so. I rarely see the case where the students made their choice out of their own interest. Students are forced to choose their career based on the current market scenario. They are not allowed to make the choice out of their interest.
People can be successful only if they make their way of their own interest. And there is no relation to the current market scenario.
Career choices should not be guided by fluctuations in the market. Education should be seen as a tool that nurtures an individuals personality and equips him/her to withstand such fluctuations for leading a healthy and balanced life.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
You build trust in us, we build business for you - Customer
One evening after office hours, I was in a hotel to have some good dinner. It is a non-veg hotel.
It is not the regular one I usually prefer. I came to know about the hotel when I came to near-by stores. I wanted to give a hit.
I was seated in a table and provided with the menu card. I couldn't make out the decision to order a non-veg curry. So I decided to get the help from the server.
I asked the server to suggest a non-veg curry that would have some pieces of mutton. He suggested one curry (I don't remember the name). He said that the curry would have three pieces of mutton. I decided to go for it.
After a while when the dishes were served, I was surprised. The curry I ordered for was not of the type I expected. The dish that was served as what I ordered was not gravy item. It was a dry one. The dish served was three pieces of masala stuffed mutton. There was more masala and I hardly found mutton. Very oily.
I experienced a very tough time having food there. I felt I was cheated. And I felt guilty over spending money unworthy.
I made up my mind not to visit this hotel anymore. Also not to recommend this hotel to anyone.
They failed to build trust. They failed to understand the requirement of the customer.
It is not the regular one I usually prefer. I came to know about the hotel when I came to near-by stores. I wanted to give a hit.
I was seated in a table and provided with the menu card. I couldn't make out the decision to order a non-veg curry. So I decided to get the help from the server.
I asked the server to suggest a non-veg curry that would have some pieces of mutton. He suggested one curry (I don't remember the name). He said that the curry would have three pieces of mutton. I decided to go for it.
After a while when the dishes were served, I was surprised. The curry I ordered for was not of the type I expected. The dish that was served as what I ordered was not gravy item. It was a dry one. The dish served was three pieces of masala stuffed mutton. There was more masala and I hardly found mutton. Very oily.
I experienced a very tough time having food there. I felt I was cheated. And I felt guilty over spending money unworthy.
I made up my mind not to visit this hotel anymore. Also not to recommend this hotel to anyone.
They failed to build trust. They failed to understand the requirement of the customer.
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